Olá, TEDxLisboa!
I HOPE YOU ENJOY MY TALK, “GRIEF TAUGHT ME HOW TO HOLD LIGHTLY”!
When we talk about grief, loss and death, we are often really talking about life and living.

I’m Charlene Lam
After my mother died suddenly in 2013, I found myself drowning in grief … and her belongings.
It’s a common problem: Feeling overwhelmed, stuck and unable to move forward after the death of a loved one. My uncommon solution: Curating an exhibition about my mother!
Now I help other people with their grief and experiences of loss, using the lens of curating.
As curator of The Grief Gallery™, I present international exhibitions featuring the belongings of loved ones lost.
As a certified grief coach, I use my Curating Grief framework to help grieving individuals navigate loss in a creative, accessible way.
(And you don’t need to be an artist or creative, or to even have any physical objects, to curate!)

Let’s Connect
More About My Work
THE BOOK
Curating Grief
A Creative Guide to Choosing What to Keep After a Loved One Dies
This new book from certified grief coach and curator Charlene Lam offers an innovative way of seeing meaningful objects, the physical stuff, and our relationships with the dead, the living, and ourselves.
Portugal and Europe: Purchase on Amazon.es as paperback
US: Buy on Amazon.com as paperback or eBook
Support independent bookstores: Buy at Bookshop.org
UK: Available on Amazon.co.uk as paperback or eBook
Or buy the eBook directly from me as a PDF or EPUB
Intro: Curating Grief
START HERE
5min INTRO VIDEO: Curating Grief is a creative, accessible way to explore grief and loss, through meaningful objects — and the stories attached to them. Grief coach and founder of The Grief Gallery Charlene Lam explains how.
THE FILM
Curating Grief: Loss and Objects
A short film about Curating Grief by London-based filmmaker Jamie Max Lee, shot on location in Lisbon.
Work With Me
Book Me To Speak
I love speaking about grief, from death-related loss to life's many transitions.
Visit my Speaker Page, book a call, or contact me at hello@charlenelam.com to learn more.
Commission an Installation of The Grief Gallery
Would you like to host or commission The Grief Gallery for your event or community?
Email me at hello@charlenelam.com
or book a call to discuss your idea.
Grief Support and Resources

Free Grief Gathering
Join us for The Grief Gallery’s free monthly grief gathering, on Zoom the last Wednesday of every month at 2pm ET.
Individual Grief Support
Want personalized help with your grief? Feeling stuck? Book a complimentary consult.
Or email me at hello@charlenelam.com and get on the waitlist for my new Grief Studio offer and programs!
Charlene Lam
I help grieving people to feel lighter and less burdened after losing a loved one, using the lens of curating and the tools of coaching.
hello@charlenelam.com
New York, NY | Lisbon, Portugal
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